Special Report: The Newest Breed of Bully, the Cyberbully
Special Report: The Newest Breed of Bully, the Cyberbully Save Email Print
Posted: 11:18 PM May 12, 2008
Last Updated: 12:44 AM May 13, 2008
Reporter: Sam Provenzano
Email Address: sam.provenzano@wbko.com

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Last year 13-year-old Megan Meir of Missouri committed suicide after being bullied on her MySpace account her case caught the attention of millions about this growing trend.

I investigated how a simple text message or e-mail can be just as detrimental to the psyche as being bullied in person.

It's the schoolyard bully.

Most of us have fallen victim to at least one in our lifetime.

Now bullying has a new face--or no face at all.

It's called cyberbullying.

"This is bullying through the Internet, bullying through text messages, cell phones, photographs and social networks like MySpace or Facebook," said Dr. William Pfohl, psychologist.

Unlike the playground bully, cyberbullies won't leave you with a black eye, but instead emotional scars...

" The psychological bullying can be all the way from disgust self-esteem to depression and we've had some cases reported of suicide," stated Pfohl.

Stephanie Human and Drake Riley of Moss Middle School have been hit once or twice by a cyberbully.

"It was over a guy, teen issues--middle school issues," said Stephanie Human.

It was somethin about callin me a girl and just makin fun of me, just dumb stuff," said Drake Riley.

Just like being hit--words can leave a mark.

" I've gotten really mad about it sometimes, but I was able to keep my cool," stated Riley.

"I do get upset--very upset. I do show anger," said Human.

According to some studies 40-percent of students have been bullied online and it could be happening to your child, but the students at Moss Middle school feel safe..

"We have a bunch of bullying programs here at Moss," said Human.

That's not all.

Moss Middle School Prinicipal Tom Renick says his school does everything it can to counter act online attacks...

"We have focus groups, maybe just not on cyberbullying, but bullying behavior in general," said Renick.

And the most affective deterent to bullying at Moss?

"We call it our Crime Stoppers box," said Renick.

"If kids want to report anonymously about bullying in general or cyberbullying they can leave that in the box and we can address it that way," said Amanda Warder, Guidance Counselor at Moss Middle School.

So what can students do to avoid being another online victim?

"The thing a bully wants, they just want attention. If you don't give them the attention then they'll stop," stated Riley.

"If they send you a message on your phone or on MySpace just block it or delete it before you can even read it," said Human.

It's also important to know that parents need to do their part to counteract cyberbullying.

According to one national parenting expert, parents need to step up to the plate and talk more with their child about cyberbullying.

If you're child is confronted by a cyberbully, it's important to warn your child to cut communication with that person--even if the offender is an alleged "friend."

For more tips on how to counteract cyberbullying click here and to take an online quiz click here.

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Posted by: StanleyDisaster Location: Bowling Green, KY on Feb 27, 2009 at 04:02 AM
Well.. adults don't get why she committed suicide, she did it because she liked someone and was humiliated. what would you do if your wife started spreading all of your secrets? What would you have done in the body of a 13-year-old girl!? Its not the computers' fault. its the users' fault for typing in so much information about themselves. Teems get online to get away from everything that includes school, parents, chores, life. Kids just want to be left alone till someone screws up. So what if a kid has a myspace? just tell them that they are only allowed to type in some information and not all. Like in the city & state. she/he could put any state except the one that they are living in. But what do I know? I'm just a teenager who has lived thought-out this crap.

Posted by: Ron Location: Bowling Green,Ky on May 13, 2008 at 05:01 PM
What has the computer really done for our society, other than allowing perverts and criminals to prey on us and our children. As for Cyberbulling, I have the solution, "TURN OFF YOUR COMPUTER" and stop being a bunch of sissy's.There is far more to Life than Computers and cell phones.

Posted by: Sara Location: Glasgow on May 13, 2008 at 01:46 AM
As a former principal-- I have seen the damage that cyberbullying can do to a teenager. This is a real issue...and it needs to be addressed at all schools across the country. It is good to see an area school doing their part in fighting this epidemic.

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