Special Report: Leaving the Amish Life
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Posted: 11:11 PM May 21, 2008
Last Updated: 11:11 PM May 21, 2008
Reporter: Forrest Sanders
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It's the perfect May day in Elizabethtown, and the Schrock family is out enjoying the breeze. Today, the family's five strong, but seven years ago, Saloma and Isaac were a young dating couple in Senora, Tennessee as part of an Amish community.

"Life in the Amish. It was all I knew," Saloma remembers.

"It was a very simple life," adds Isaac. "All that we were allowed as far as electricity was batteries and a flashlight. I remember growing up asking my parents, why do we do things like this? They would say, 'because we've always done it that way'."

For Isaac and Saloma, that answer wasn't good enough.

"Until the night we left the Amish, me and my wife didn't even talk about leaving," Isaac recalls.

"There was a lot of little things going on and the preachers came and talked," says Saloma. "It was actually because we were seeing each other too much during the day."

"We creeped out into the night and sat on a log in the woods," Isaac says.

"We just got to talking and we said, we're so sick of this," Saloma adds.

"I went in, got my stuff, went back to her place, got her stuff, we left," remembers Isaac.

"It felt like the right thing to do," says Saloma. "It felt so right and it felt like freedom."

It was an impulsive decision and one that came with challenges.

"Missing the family was the biggest challenge," Isaac says.

"My mom and dad at first would not let me back in the house," adds Saloma.

"My family don't write me. I write them letters, they don't write back," says Isaac.

"My parents both still write to me, but even in their letters, you can feel the distance," Saloma explains.

So, Isaac and Saloma forced themselves to move on. Today, Isaac works as a truck driver, while Saloma's a full time mom for five-year-old Victoria, three-year-old Jacob, and nine-month-old Shania.

"The conveniences of modern electricity and cars, that was like, man, how'd I live without it?" laughs Isaac.

But that's not to say Isaac and Saloma never feel their Amish roots.

"Sometimes I get to where I wanted to wear my old dress. I wanted to get into the old clothes," explains Saloma.

As for Isaac, he's hoping to start a career as a retailer and wholesaler of Amish-made furniture.

"My dad used to say, you get sawdust in your hair, you can comb it out. You get sawdust in your blood, you can't get rid of it," he says.

Building furniture, as part of a community strong in support for one another is what Isaac and Saloma miss most about their Amish life to this day.

"I did grow up with a lot of quality and I'm proud of that," says Isaac.

"That's important to me to hand down the values that I learned," Saloma adds. "It was a wonderful life.

But according to Saloma and Isaac, so is this one.

"I don't regret a thing. I don't regret it a bit," Isaac smiles. "As far as lifestyle, I'm happy as can be. I wouldn't trade nothing."

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Posted by: Reuben Location: OH Holmes co. on Apr 30, 2009 at 08:19 PM
HI, I am ex-amish too, plus I am deaf person. I left amish half yr. ago. From my experice I learn that Amish are more worried about kepping their way of life as their insurance for their future than having relationship with God. They would interper the Bible to fit their way of life, proably because of lack of understanding. I feel sorry for them. I hope you come to know God. It was hard for me to change from only life that I know, I am sure that is for u too. God bless u.

Posted by: Saloma Location: ky on Jun 8, 2008 at 03:58 PM
thanks for all the encouragement! and Sheryl you can run your own life!!!

Posted by: Leavia Location: ky on May 23, 2008 at 10:11 PM
The Amish way of life is different, but I cannot see living that way. They do not belive in having autos, but they will hire someone to drive them around, what is the difference? I am pround of this couple for coming out and enjoying our way of life.

Posted by: Sandra Location: KY on May 22, 2008 at 04:18 PM
There is nothing wrong with her clothes. The Bible does say Judge not lest you be judged. Pray for them. I'm sure it would be very hard to step out and do this.

Posted by: makayla Location: scottsville on May 22, 2008 at 01:05 PM
I think that is great that they left the amish life. maby they have changed there life about how they felt. I think they will be a lot better off now that they are living like we are to day.

Posted by: Laura Location: KY on May 22, 2008 at 01:04 PM
I am proud of them. It is a shame that people have to live the way that the Amish do. Just because a woman wears pants or they have electricity doesn't mean that they don't follow the way of the Lord.

Posted by: regina on May 22, 2008 at 12:56 PM
I dont agree with you. This is free country and may things are available to make life easier. I feel they done the right thing for them at the time and appears that they are doing well. He still says he loves the amish community and he will be able to remember that for the rest of his life. You live the way you want and dont let others take away from you the life you want to live. CONGRADULATIONS

Posted by: Angel Location: KY on May 22, 2008 at 12:27 PM
I think leaving your way of life and family took great courage. I believe the Amish are very respectable people and their way of life is wonderful. But that was not the way for you or your children. God gives us choices as to which direction to live our lives and you chose to break away from tradition. If you believe you did the right thing, then good for you! Don't let anyone discourage you or your decisions! Your family should love you unconditionally regardless of what decisions you make! If what you did was by your own faith and God is still first in your life, then I don't think you made the wrong choice! God bless you and your family! You are an inspiration to everyone!

Posted by: Sheryl Location: ky on May 21, 2008 at 11:27 PM
I think its sad. this young couple has swung too far in the other direction, away from the BIBLE. You could gain electricity and still drive a car if you must. however there is no reason for a woman in pants, no head covering and an immodest shirt as pictured. what sort of values will you really pass on to your children? they are the ones who will lose as they will become even more worldly than you did.

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